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"A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies," said Jojen. "The man who never reads lives only one." - George R.R. Martin, A Dance With Dragons

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Monday, February 22, 2016

Memoir Monday and ... Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life by Karen Armstrong

Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life by Karen Armstrong... In this important and thought-provoking work, Karen Armstrong—one of the most original thinkers on the role of religion in the modern world—provides an impassioned and practical guide to helping us make the world a more compassionate place.

The twelve steps she suggests begin with “Learn About Compassion,” and close with “Love Your Enemies.” In between, she takes up self-love, mindfulness, suffering, sympathetic joy, the limits of our knowledge of others, and “concern for everybody.” She shares concrete methods to help us cultivate and expand our capacity for compassion, and provides a reading list to encourage us to “hear one another’s narratives.” Armstrong teaches us that becoming a compassionate human being is a lifelong project and a journey filled with rewards.

The First Step: Learn About Compassion
The Second Step: Look at Your Own World
The Third Step: Compassion for Yourself
The Fourth Step: Empathy
The Fifth Step: Mindfulness
The Sixth Step: Action
The Seventh Step: How Little We Know
The Eighth Step: How Should We Speak to One Another?
The Ninth Step: Concern for Everybody
The Tenth Step: Knowledge
The Eleventh Step: Recognition
The Twelfth Step: Love Your Enemies

Not a memoir, but more of a guide by Karen Armstrong, who is best known as a  religious historian and former nun. In 2008, she won a $100,000 TED prize to spread an idea- her idea was compassion. She created the Charter for Compassion, and this book is a result of her original idea. Here is a link to her Ted Talk Wish: The Charter for Compassion.

What a wonderful idea! And to help you along with your road to compassion, Joy of Joy's Book Blog, is hosting Compassionate Sundays, where each month one of the steps will be discussed over at Joy's Blog. A gathering place where people can share their thoughts. Thanks Joy for hosting such a gathering place. You can learn more by going to Joy's Book Blog.

Sunday, January 10, 2016

The Sunday Salon... New Year, New You!

Welcome to The Sunday Salon! It's a new year, do you ever think about change? I'm not talking about resolutions, I'm talking about taking a deep breathe and feeling like changing a habit or introducing something different into your life. Find yourself a comfy chair, pour yourself a cup of joe and let's talk about 3 books designed to help you make a positive change...

Sometimes making a change isn't easy to do on your own. That's why we make and break resolutions. But what about books that are meant to inspire us to make a change in our lives? Do they work better than a New Years' Resolution? Here are three books (Okay, 4 books) that have gotten a lot of buzz lately...

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo... Japanese organizational consultant Marie Kondo takes tidying to a whole new level, promising that if you properly declutter your home once, you'll never have to do it again. Whereas most methods advocate a room-by-room or little-by-little approach, the KonMari Method's category-by-category, all-at-once prescription leads to lasting results. In fact, none of Kondo's clients have been repeat customers (and she still has a three-month waiting list of new customers!). With detailed guidance for every type of item in the household, this quirky little manual from Japan's newest lifestyle phenomenon will help readers clear their clutter and enjoy the unique magic of a tidy home--and the calm, motivated mindset it can inspire.

This was the "It" book of 2104! Everyone was cleaning up their act. And it was one of those cute size gift books too, and comes in at a slim 224 pages. Have you read it? I actually bought it and it's in my TBR pile. Of course, if I had read it, would I have a TBR pile anymore? It's time for me to read this little book and put order in my "piles". Lots of praise for this book and Marie Kondo has just released a companion book to this called, Spark Joy: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up, which is an 'in-depth, illustrated manual on how to declutter and organize specific items throughout the house, from kitchen and bathroom items to work-related papers and hobby collections." This new book, released January 5th, has had mixed reviews. I'm saving my judgement until I finish the first book and look for this second book to keep me going. 

52 Small Changes: One Year to a Happier Healthier You by Brett Blumenthal... Whether as New Year’s resolutions, birthday wishes, or daily promises, most everyone vows at some point to make a major life change. But change is easier said than done, especially when it comes to better managing our wellness amidst the chaos of everyday living. Fortunately, wellness coach and award-winning writer Brett Blumenthal has devised a way to inspire and motivate her readers to live healthier and make positive changes in their lives. Although Blumenthal’s method is not a quick fix, it is a surprisingly simple one: make one small change per week, for fifty-two weeks, and at the end of a year, you’ll be happier and healthier. After all, it is the small changes that are the most realistic, instead of trying to overhaul your lifestyle all at once

This was Brett's first book dealing with "52 small changes", and wraps itself around the concept that small changes taken over time is more successful than trying to make a change all at once. She encourages you to make positive changes for your total well being, such as drink more water, get more sleep, laugh, take your vitamins, etc. AND, there are so many great reviews for this book too! Want to make some positive changes in your life? Why not give Brett's book a try! And right now, it's at a bargain Kindle price of $3.99! Here is THE LINK .

52 Small Changes for the Mind: Improve Memory * Minimize Stress * Increase Productivity * Boost Happiness by Brett Blumenthal... Small changes work. In this practical book, wellness expert Brett Blumenthal reveals how to hone in on the mind as the foundation of overall health and well-being. She presents one small, achievable change every week—from developing music appreciation to eating brain-boosting foods, practicing mono-tasking, incorporating play, and more. The accumulation of these lifestyle changes ultimately leads to improved memory, less stress, increased productivity, and sustained happiness. Backed by research from leading experts and full of helpful charts and worksheets, 52 Small Changes for the Mind provides a road map to a better life—and proves that the journey can be as rewarding as the destination.

This is Brett's newest book and focuses in on mindfulness. 52 positive changes we can do with our minds to help us become happier. This would involve reducing stress, improving our memories and becoming more productive. Though her other book was a hit, she thought zeroing in on these things could be beneficial. Mindfulness is all the rage these days, and I think this book may be a way for the author to hop aboard, but if it helps someone to have a happier life, I am all for it. I'm picking up the first book at the bargain Kindle price and checking out this book at the library first.

You Are Here by Thich Nhat Hanh... This moment is the gateway to enlightenment. It is the only moment we have to be joyful, mindful, and awake. The key is to be there for yourself—to learn to be fully present in your life. This, Thich Nhat Hanh explains, is the heart of Buddhist practice.
In this introduction to the practice of presence, the beloved Buddhist teacher provides indispensable insight on the essentials of Buddhist thought and offers a range of simple, everyday practices for cultivating mindfulness. These teachings empower us to witness the wonder of life and transform our suffering, both within us and around us, into compassion, tenderness, and peace—not in some long and hard struggle, but in this very moment. As Thich Nhat Hanh declares, “the energy of mindfulness is the energy of the Buddha, and it can be produced by anybody.” It’s as simple as breathing in and breathing out.

How often do we race around not really paying attention to what's going on around us? Have you ever driven to work and not remember the drive? Thich Nhat Hanh is a "Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh is an internationally known author, poet, scholar, and peace activist, and was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize by Martin Luther King Jr. in 1967" and has written quite a few books inspired by his practice of Buddhism. This is a slim book of only 163 pages, but packs a powerful punch and is inspiring. Maybe this could be the book that helps start your new year? This one is on my shelf.

Are you inspired? Going to make any changes? Is reading about how to make those changes more effective for you then going it on your own? I think that these books are the type that can help us make positive changes in our lives. I'm almost over New Years resolutions of the non-reading kind. These books inspire to make changes whether it's January 1st or October 9th. Happy New Year, New You!

Happy Reading... Suzanne

Sunday, October 4, 2015

The Fault in Book Censorship or How could They Ban The Fault in Our Stars...


I just finished The Fault in Our Stars by John Green. After crying my eyes out for a good 20 minutes near the end of the book, I paused to think about how unfair life can be. I guess the unfair part is not life, but things that can happen because you have a life. How you have so many days, have no idea how many days that actually is until you have no days left and then probably still don't know how many days because it's just over… Thank you Hazel Grace and Augustus Waters for making me remember that you only get so many days, so let's enjoy them or waste them or do whatever you'd like to do with them, just remember to be conscious of them while it's going on…

I read The Fault in Our Stars for Banned Book Week. The book had been lingering on my Kindle for a very long time and Banned Book Week gave me the necessary push to read it. It was banned initially for a complaint by a parent that "the morbid plot, crude language, and sexual content was inappropriate for her children." My initial thoughts were that I was happy to see a parent paying attention to what her children were reading, or what was available to read, but let's not make those decisions of what's appropriate for other people's children. My thoughts after reading the book were how can anyone think those things about this book

I guess death is a morbid thought. I'm sorry but people die, and I'm even sorrier that children die, but wouldn't it be better to have a dialogue about this instead of putting it away into a closet? I thought the book dealt with Hazel Grace's mortality in a refreshingly honest way. I'm sure that the way Hazel and her teenage friends dealt with the subject is the way real teenagers would.

“I told Augustus the broad outline of my miracle: diagnosed with Stage IV thyroid cancer when I was thirteen. (I didn’t tell him that the diagnosis came three months after I got my first period. Like: Congratulations! You’re a woman. Now die.)” 

Crude language?… OK, I guess when someone has cancer in a certain male area and talks about it, it could be considered crude. Actually, Hazel Grace made light of the counselor who survived his cancer, since at the beginning of every support group meeting he had to tell everyone once again about "his cancer".

And, finally sexual content… well, spoiler alert here…. 16-year-old Hazel Grace and 17-year-old Augustus Waters have sex, but it is primarily left to the imagination. No Fifty Shades, no graphic detail, just a few buttons, hoses and removal of a prosthetic involved. You could almost miss it, but just know that it happened. I imagine that this could be inappropriate for young children, but I'm sure teenagers know about sex. Good teaching opportunity here too.

So, what did I think about The Fault in Our Stars?! I loved it! It was amazing, compassionate, honest and shattering. I loved Hazel Grace immediately and was rooting for her and Augustus Waters from the start, even though I kinda knew that their love story was doomed. There was a twist that left me breathless and crying my eyes out and realizing that John Green is an amazing writer and I should have read this a long time ago. If you haven't read this, READ THIS! An amazing love story, an honest look at "how cancer sucks", and a reminder to all of us to live our life mindfully.
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